وَالَّذِينَ يَقُولُونَ رَبَّنَا هَبْ لَنَا مِنْ أَزْوَاجِنَا وَذُرِّيَّاتِنَا قُرَّةَ أَعْيُنٍ وَاجْعَلْنَا لِلْمُتَّقِينَ إِمَامًا (74)
(74) And those who say, “Our Lord, grant us from among our wives and offspring comfort to our eyes and make us an example for the righteous.”
Ebad Al-Rahman make “Duaa” asking their Lord to give them spouses & descendants that are obedient to Allah, helpful to them in being noble humans and pleasant to their eyes.
What is marriage? Union between 2 families not just 2 persons
Why marry? fulfill human needs, sex, love, care, children, comfort, support financial, spiritual, physical
When? able : puberty, financial, conditions permitting.
Who can marry? any Muslim (for men practicing females from people of the book who had no boy friends nor slept around) except
Permanent : mother, father &up and aunt, uncle & son daughter down, brothers sister down, step children, mother father , Brother or sister in breast feeding in laws.
Temporary: bother sister of spouses, any married women for men , any Muslim man married to up to 3 wives for females (Muslim females have a wider field to choose from)
What responsibilities & rights : free discussion
Why have children?
raising off springs: free discussion
Ebad Al-Rahman make “Duaa” asking their Lord to make them leaders to those who practice Taqwa; Leaders to those protecting themselves from Hell, protecting their place in Heaven and protecting their Lords love to them. By doing all that was discussed in this Surah.